I have been procrastinating on writing this post because there is much to write. I will try to keep it meaningful and to-the-point. LOL
Let's start with the differences we experienced between this trip (now 27 months old) and the last trip (last July when they were 15 months old). Some changes were good; others not so good.
Good changes:
* The flight there and back was easier than last year. It definitely helped that they now have some interest in DVD's and better understanding of what we are saying.
* More words/better understanding so they could communicate more with us and other people.
* Although they still get into everything, being older, they are more agile and we do not have worry about falling as much. Also, they are not as consumed with little toys (that last year we had to worry about choking) or off-limit objects.
* They LOVED the trampoline...a definite lifesaver.
* They came home and were able to adjust to this time zone immediately...from the 1st night! YEAH! Last time it took a week for them to adjust and lots of sleepless nights.
Bad changes:
* Much more aware of people and more aware that they didn't recognize the family. This led to lots of tears when others tried to hold them or mommy/papa were out of the room.
* They never fully adjusted to the time change (6 hrs) while we were there. (Last time they adjusted w/in 2-3 days.) This meant usually at least one of them waking up somewhere in the night. We also had to play the DVD for an hour or two to get them to sleep.
* Meals...I will not elaborate too much, but let me say, "They were a DIASTER!" I think part of the problem was last time we had them in their 2 booster/high chairs and this time we did not bring it and their were 2 other young kids (a few months younger than ours). So they ate (read: screamed) at a big chair at the table. This was extra painful for us b/c if you know anything about Europe mealtime is a big deal there. :(
Now, on the trip itself...We arrived on my b'day (the 10th) and that night the guys had the bachelor party with Bas. They 1st chowed down and then played some paintball. Later than night (around 11pm) they headed out for some drinks. Tycho skipped the last part b/c he was exhausted after almost no sleep the night before (on the plane). The following day, July 11th, the girls headed out for the bachelorette party at 9am!! We drove to Amsterdam where we participated in a day package...the package included morning tart & coffee, followed by a tour of the Red Light District (mostly). After we ate lunch (not impressive!) at a nearby restaurant and then attended a "laughing" seminar led by a crazy lady. It was funny but only b/c she was crazy! The best part of the package was the end...we created a karoake CD of songs. We first selected and practiced them and then they recorded them. The only bummer for me was it was mostly Dutch songs that I have never heard in my entire life. ;) Next, we left Amsterdam and drove back to Bas' parents' house for a pancake dinner. At 8pm, I pooped out and headed home...again sheer exhausation from our recent travels and the jet lag. If I had only known that Leyla would wake up that night at 10pm and not fall back asleep til 2am, I think I would have somehow mustered up the strength to continue on with their evening of fun! Oh well...
Most of the next week was filled with family time...mostly hanging out and going to nearby places we could walk to since we did not have enough cars for us all to go anywhere.
Then, the big day arrived...Saturday, July 18th...Eline and Bas' wedding. Since the ceremony started at 12 noon, we started the day early...before 8, that is. Eline's friend, Fleur (sp?), arrived at 7:30 am to work on Eline's hair and make-up, which turned out amazing. Just see for yourself in the pics. We had decided it was best to get ourselves dressed and ready before dressing the kids' as they might ruin their outfits. I also worked diligently on Leyla's hair as she watched Word World. I had found some awesome little pink roses which at a flea market early in the week which I sowed to elastic rubber bands to make some adorable hair things. I really liked how her hair turned out, but unfortunately, as always she pulled it out. So I resorted to a quick pulled back hair-do. Someday, maybe, she will enjoy her hair having pretty hair styles.
Anyway, unlike American tradition, the Dutch people have the groom come to the bride's house and pick her up. Then, they ride to the ceremony together. A bummer, in my opinion, for those attending the wedding, but at least we (as family) witnessed their reactions as they first saw each other. They both looked stunning! Perfect together!
Once Edward drove them away in a rented Mercedes, the rest of us scrambled to get all the kids in the cars and race there ourselves. The first 2 rows had been reserved for us. Obviously, being in Holland, the ceremony was in Dutch. I understood most of the initial greetings, but after that, I did not hear much of it because I was too busy chasing, shushing, bribing, and threatening Quinn and Leyla. I imagine, thinking back on it myself, it must have been comical to anyone watching.
It was apparent from the beginning, that they did not want to sit still, nor be quiet, so I pulled out my prepared lifesaver--goldfish in a special snack cup. They happily inhaled those; however, a few minutes into eating them, Quinn thought it would funny to play peek-a-boo of sorts. He began covering his eyes with his hands, and loudly asking, "Where did he go?" And with each ignored question, he repeated the question in a louder voice. Then Leyla, not to be out done, began to stand on the chair, wave to the people behind her, and exclaim, "HI!" Thus began my shushing tactics, which fell on deaf ears. After a few minutes, these antics lost their appeal and they both wiggled their way out of our arms. Luckily, there was a large open space on the side of the rows, so we thought maybe they would remain quiet if we let them run there a little. Wrong! Instead, they discovered the metal vent on the floor made a *cool* sound if they ran across it! Soon, I scrambled and ushered them toward the back of the church building. I spent the remainder of the ceremony there trying to keep them still and quiet. It worked, for the most part.
After the ceremony concluded, there was a hor'dor and beverage reception immediately following. The reception was kicked off with a champaigne toast to the new couple. This time was still busy trying to keep an eye on Q & L; however, much more enjoyable as they could run free and I did not have worry about noise, just tried to keep an eye on them. This reception lasted from about 1pm-3:30pm. We left this and headed back to Tycho's parents' house until the evening dinner.
At 6pm, we walked down the street to a restaurant called "The Ark." As is typical in Holland, the wedding dinner is only attended by immediate family (both Eline & Bas' parents, siblings, sibling spouses--no aunts, uncles, cousins, etc) and close friends. I believe they had a total of 37 people there; although, I am uncertain if that # included the 7 children or not. We brought Q & L; however, Gemma was kind enough to arrange for a babysitter for the kids after they were put to bed. We decided, for various reasons, to bring them back home after ordering our meals. I must confess it was wonderful to enjoy the evening (it lasted til 11:30 pm) kid-free.
All in all, it was a wonderful day! Full of memories and lots of pics to help us remember in years to come.